The Circle Way Practicum

It was the mid 1990s when I first became involved in change-through-dialogue work. That was through The Berkana Institute, working with Meg Wheatley and Myron Kellner-Rogers. I was a support person for multi-day residential gatherings at Sundance, Utah. Our starting question was, “What is the leadership needed for the 21st century?” These were powerful learning and community experiences that very much shaped and formed me.

It was the late 1990s when I first became involved in the more formal discipline and structure of the dialogue process that is The Circle Way (back then it was called PeerSpirit Circling). That’s when I met Christina Baldwin and Ann Linnea, who would become two of my dearest friends. That’s when some of Berkana’s work was the initiative, From the Four Directions and I started meeting people from many countries and many walks of life. That’s when I started traveling to not only support, but to begin cohosting events.

Today, The Circle Way is at the core of what I teach. I often speak of it as the tool beneath all tools. It is the most basic and impactful form that I know for helping people to turn to one another in thoughtful, wise, imaginative, and kind ways. Some of that teaching that is coming soon is in Australia near Brisbane. I’ll be teaching with Amanda Fenton and Penny Hamilton, two people that I really enjoy.

Our website lists a few of the areas of focus that the practicum in Australia will include. It’s kind of exciting! Because, these days, containers matter even more than ever. Because, these days, with tensions raising, it feels even more important to be grounded in practices of listening and thoughtful speaking.

  • The different components of circle practice that help create a strong container for our stories and important conversations.
  • How circle works — the principles, practices, and agreements.
  • How to create conditions for better listening and intentional speaking.
  • How to apply various aspects of circle process to enhance our conversations and meetings.
  • Our own hosting in small circles with real questions and issues.
  • Working with energetics, shadow, conflict, and sustaining healthy circles.
  • The special contributions of story and appreciation in circle.
  • The capacity of circle that allows collective intelligence to emerge, and how the “leader in every chair” approach can achieve more commitment, ownership, joy, and sustainable solutions and decisions.

Join us. Or for some of the other avenues to learn the circle way.

On Circle — Not Mine, But Ours

Though The Circle Way Advanced Practicum that I’m cohosting with Amanda Fenton is nine months away, I find myself thinking about it much. It’s running in the background and foreground for me, like a song that I’m enjoying and is stuck in me. I find myself humming the tune of the practicum yet to be. Humming it into some choices of form.

That leads me to some reflections on circle this morning. It remains the tool beneath tools for me. It remains the way of being that has most altered my life and authenticity of interaction.

Living as circle is a way of being. It brings us into a requisite vibration such that we can now be in relationship to the heartbeat not mine, but ours. To the thinking and feeling not mine, but ours. To the grander scale not mine, but ours. To the inspired and tangible action not isolated, but integrated.

It’s as if we arrive to circle with our backyard simple stream, only to have it transformed, even for a moment, to the mighty Mississippi. We arrive with crevice created from an overnight storm, yet gain access to the wonder of the Grand Canyon. We come with dripping faucet, yet flow with others, for a moment, to the majesty and drenching quality of Victoria Falls.

Circle is the ultimate amplifier.

Humming, yes. Perhaps some of you will join us in December to evolve the practice, each other, and even the core of our personal being.

Famished for Awakeness

The last four weeks I’ve been co-teaching with Amanda Fenton an online class about The Circle Way. Twenty-eight people participated from nine countries. It’s been learning filled and delightful in relationship.

Yesterday’s class, the last in the four part series, was designed around people’s questions and interests — “what do you still want to give more attention to?”

Though it wasn’t a question asked directly, I found myself reflecting on why circle works (a question that is beneath many questions). “The circle working” is the desire that most people have, everything from crossed fingers to unwavering commitment. They want and need a more collaborative and thoughtful way of connecting and working together.

I came up with this clarity that I offered to the classes:

Circle works because people are hungry for it. They may not know it, but what they are famished for is hope, awareness, and awakeness. When they can experience that and apply it to their context of work or community, it is life-changing.

What feels important to me in this is recognizing that most people aren’t that interested in being sold on a process. They are not looking for another “thing” (even though mechanized society has so often taught looking for “things”). The grand aha of it, so often, is that through the structure, the invitation, and the most simple questions to engage, people taste an increased honesty and vitality, that is sadly rare in contemporary organizational structure.

That’s the moment. When famished transposes to fulfilled. Even just for a moment.

What a delight to offer this class, and to strengthen use and practice of circle with these good people.

The Circle Way 4 Week Online Class Starts Today

I’m teaching this online class with Amanda Fenton, who is delightful. She doesn’t just do circle. She practices it. She lives it. I learn much from and with her.

Twenty-eight participants will gather for the first class today, offered twice. We capped registration at 14 per class to encourage a kind of intimacy and knowing each other. Delicious people, each who have expressed in writing some of what they care about. Schools. Meetings at work. Situations of conflict and mediation. Family. Community. First Nations. Healthcare. Government. Social work. Libraries. And more. It’s a big list. It’s an important part of the invitation to encourage real purpose and meaning. Today that will shift to voice and video together.

Nine countries in which these participants are living — USA, Canada, India, Australia, Austria, Wales, Bermuda, New Zealand, Spain.

What is exciting and attractive to me that is that each of us comes with a baseline assumption, or hope, that connection matters. We all want meaning and purpose in our gatherings. We are all looking for a simplicity to help that happen more regularly.

I hope, and intend, that together, we all find within us and among us the added witnessing and courage that helps us to be, practice, and live in the best ways in these many environments that we care about.

Ready, go.