Human to Human

From a collection I picked up recently.

Suddenly it is now
the trees are full of leaves again
the grass is damp
with early sun

the night
and all her dreams
are nowhere to be seen
the awakening thoughts
forgotten

light
and all the dappled shadows
we dance to

silence
and all the echoing
songs of life

emptiness
full of absent spaces
where memory
refused to lie

listening
even breathing
can be enough
to bring the whole world
to life.

I suppose the line, “Suddenly it is now” captures me. My appreciation for nowness. My body’s surrender to it.

I suppose a part of me is wishing spring. Awakening and budding from the great winter that has again left fresh overnight snow dust.

I suppose part of it is so loving “songs of life.” With my beloved. With what moves in and around us. With our upcoming marriage ceremony.

I suppose it is my love of stillness, morning practice yes, and way of being, that wakes me to a flowing nature and the joy of all that.

A new local friend / colleague spoke it last week. Marshall Opel is his name.

Marshall reached out to me to explore and connect locally. He had interest in Flow Game. His demeanor is calm. Grounded. Well-paced. Appreciative. Curious.

“It’s not reckless if you’re checked in.”

Perfect.

Marshall’s business is taking people (sometimes men’s initiatives) on multiple day bike and hiking trips in Utah and Montana. Aspects of Circle. And Ceremony. And nature. And challenge.

I asked Marshall if he ever has men of my age (62) participate. He thought for a bit, imagining some of the climbs, paths that they follow. He smiled.

That’s when he said, “It’s not reckless if you’re checked in.”

True for his circumstance. And quite true for many circumstances of life, right.

Thx Marshall.

Megan brings a great focus to health and well-being that comes from ceremony and ritual.

This week we got to touch a few things on that. Some why of ceremony. Some examples. Some on the big ceremonies. Some on the everyday. Some on the first-time experiences. Some on what lasts over years. Some on the call to men in ceremony.

This podcast is meant to be pretty simple. Unedited conversation. Presence. Some pause. An important question or two asked together. Listening. Wondering. We know we don’t get to all of the good stuff. We get to what supports well-being, becoming, belonging. And that can ripple out to others.

Enjoy the listen and a bit more about Megan and Being Ceremonial here.

Ready for a next conversation, a next convening on Becoming & Belonging? Reach me.

From Gifts of Circle, Chapter 4:

• Circle activates an identity of the whole.
• Circle invites further connection.
• Circle bridges the professional and the personal.
• Circle surprises people with depth.

I loved writing this book. I’m loving people connecting with it.

I’m loving the way the book is further writing me.

On February 28th I’m being hosted by NewStories. It’s a book release gathering online. Details are here. Come to learn. Come to share.