Tweets of the Weeks

  • Watching Zoe and her company dance at annual competition. Lyrical. Hip Hop coming.
  • Conversational leadership requires awareness on what motivates. Conversation connects us to purpose, which motivates. #blplc2011
  • “@JF_Hivon: #blplc2011 Orgs great at starting new projects: not so great at stopping things that don’t work. CREATE an org TO DON’T list”
  • Going through theme-catcher notes to identify themes, practices, emerging ideas, killer questions — at #blplc2011
  • Going into opening keynote, Meg Wheatley, at Leadership Saskatoon. Will be catching themes for dialogue poems. #blplc2011
  • @benjaminaaron: through external attention & internal intention consciousness contracts into dissipative structures we process as identities
  • April snow in Utah Valley. Saturday surprise that I woke to… http://yfrog.com/h4o4lecj
  • Reflections from my friend Bob Stilger of a Zimbabwe experience we shared and how it relates to current Japan: http://bit.ly/k7KzPH
  • Friend Cindy at Quantum Leadership Workshop: “In Newtonian World, the game is certainty. In Quantum, it is co-creation.”
  • My friend Carla Kelley of HREC Utah at Quantum Leadership Workshop: “Love is all that exists. Everything else is a distraction.”

 

Wild Geese — Mary Oliver

An old familiar poem that my friend Allister Hain recently reminded me of.Wild GeeseYou do not have to be good.

You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body 
    love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting–
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
    ~ Wild Geese by Mary Oliver

 

 

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

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Allow — Danna Faulds

A poem that my friend and colleague in learning, Allister Hain, shared with. Well timed. I have been in a few conversations recently with people close to me that are learning about control (and thus, as am I). A long-time friend feeling the realities of mid life, being family, working, serving in church, and trying to remember place in the world. And with my teenaged daughter, who is beginning to learn about contrast.

ALLOW by Danna Faulds
There is no controlling life.
Try corralling a lightning bolt, containing a tornado.
Dam a stream and it will create a new channel.
Resist, and the tide will sweep you off your feet.
Allow, and grace will carry you to higher ground.
The only safety lies in letting it all in —
the wild and weak —
fear, fantasies, failures, and success.
When loss rips off the doors of the heart
or sadness veils your vision with despair,
practice becomes simply bearing the truth.
In the choice to let go of your known way of being,
the whole world is revealed to your new eyes.

Theme Catching & Theme Weaving

Next week I’ll be Master Theme Weaver at the University of Saskatchewan’s Leadership Conference 2011. I’ve been working with some fantastic people in Saskatoon to create a sense of what this is. This includes a team of Theme Catchers, who will be attending sessions and trying to catch the gist of things. Together, we’ll all huddle up a few times in the “Imagination Station,” thankfully renamed such from “the War Room,” at the suggestion of my colleague, Shannon Floer. I’ll share some of those insights at the end of the conference in 45 minutes before closing remarks by the conference chair.

In the conference brochure, I described theme weaving this way: “Working with a team of theme-gatherers, Tenneson will offer a narrative thread on some of this year’s key conference ideas. Look for some poetry on everything from the practical to emerging insights. Look for an invitation to turn to each other, notice next steps, and with deliberateness, seal and close the experience of this year’s leadership conference learning.”

I’ve loved working with the conference team to identify some key points in catching themes. It has included emphasizing these points, all grounded in skills of noticing what emerges:

  1. Welcoming a Punchy Attitude — it is really a truth-telling tone. I’ve encouraged to participate and observe, looking for “what really happened?” There will be some exec summary kind of gathering. But I also want to hear from them what they would tell to a friend at the bar.
  2. You Don’t Have to Get It All — this is busting the myth that you have to capture everything and summarize it. Of course it means paying attention to what is important. However, it also mean freeing ourselves from the pressure of “if you don’t get it all, you don’t get anything.”
  3. Everything is an Offer — This is also the title of an improv / leadership book by Robert Poynton. It is another principle of freedom that I find helpful to invite the team to stay in their creativity in what they offer.

I’ve also offered these guidelines for how to do the above. They are similar, and are all about reading the energy and reaction in the room. For example, “Follow the Spark of Yes” — this is a noticing of what comes alive in the room during the presentations. Or, “Watch for What Resonates” — an invitation to notice points at which there is affirmation or recognition of what is being shared. Sometimes these are obvious because they are marked by laughter or a spike in energy.

We are giving each Theme Catcher a worksheet, inviting words and or images in response, as well as some time to sit in the Imagination Station to notice what themes are emerging.

1. What’s practical? (two or three issues relevant to what leaders do now)
2. What’s innovative? (two or three ideas that point to emerging paradigms in leadership)
3. What’s the headline? (for the story of this presentation)
4. What’s the connection? (this headline to the practice of conversational leadership)
5. What’s the vibe? (that you heard from participants)
6.What’s the gem? (that you’ll remember, really, in ten years)

Really looking forward to this. And I’m admiring the creativity and courage that the conference committee is showing to innovate their conference and the way that large conferences are convened.