From Things Residual

In her book Big Magic, Elizabeth Gilbert writes about the 20th century Irish poet Patrick Kavanagh. She describes him in the context of artists (poets, musicians, painters, dreamers and the like) and how they must often steal away to create their art. There are few artists that have complete spaciousness and funding to simply compose at their leisure. Rather, they are more often, hungry, and can’t help but create in the moments that they squeeze out of an ordinary life.

In describing Kavanagh, Gilbert applauds his ability to create extraordinary from the ordinary, and quotes one of his poems:

See over there
A created splendor
Made by one individual
from things residual.

I come from pretty ordinary people that could do extraordinary things. This includes my grandparents who did not have the means to take us four grandkids out to a movie with snacks and drinks. However, they did have the means to turn home movies (the 8 mm kind you had to thread through the projector) and a shared bowl of popcorn into irreplaceable memory. Ordinary things made extraordinary.

What I deeply appreciate in Elizabeth Gilbert’s writing is her debunking of a pervasive myth — that creativity is for when everything else is aligned and taken care of. You and I know that this is practically never. Rather, creativity is expressed because you simply can’t help but do it. For me, that is often in my writing. I am simply more fulfilled when I have taken the time, even squeezing it in, to put together a few thoughts and insights into a morning of writing. It feeds my identity as a writer and artist, as a creator — though my todo list of basic day to day life needs often arm wrestle for all of the attention.

There is lots of art to create. And, I’m aware that sometimes our “art” is raising a family, preparing a meal, folding the laundry, or even, managing a project team. It’s a clear and important reminder to me, often — and perhaps to many of us — to feed our irrepressible desires to create. Even from the most residual of resources.

 

Trusting Your Nature

This week I was able to spend an afternoon hiking and wandering Tiger Mountain near Issaquah, Washington, where I took this picture. The occasion was my spouse’s 53rd birthday. I love the green of Washington State. Soft moss that grows on standing and fallen trees. Ferns that make their home everywhere. Streams that trickle through the park, as well as a few waterfalls. There is a kind of obvious abundance.

We were out for three hours. Some of that moving. Some of that talking. Some of that huffing and puffing (it’s a fair incline). And some of it just sitting. When I sit in places like that, I can often hear the voice of one of my mentors. “We are nature.” Not, “It’s good to be out in nature.” It’s not external. Rather, it is internal. We too, despite being the incredibly conceptual and cognitive beings that we are, with ability to abstract, are also a living system nested within other living systems. That changes how I pay attention and how I listen for insight and welcome it to arrive.

My friend Kinde Nebeker and I have just finished creating an invitation for another three part series we are offering on The Inner and Outer of Evolutionary Leadership. This series is called Trusting Your Nature. The middle session will be a full day up in Utah’s Wasatch Mountains. If you are reading this and within range to join us, please do.

The Effect of Stress

The video collage below is 51 minutes. It features Bruce Lipton, a cellular biologist who has taken his work to many, many layers. His style is quite intense, in part, because he knows a lot of stuff and is offering really important connecting into a story.

In this piece, he talks about the health of human body (cells) and how patterned stress (and patterns of perceived stress) can limit the function of the body. When we see a lion, our body gives preference to where reaction and power needs to be — in our arms and legs so that we can run. If we feel that threat all of the time, other systems in our body shrink, including immune systems.

It’s worth a listen. Thanks Teresa for sharing this with me — Teresa is incorporating many aspects of working with stress into her core work.

On Grief, And Tenderness

I met Marilyn Hamilton about ten years ago, I think. She came to a leadership conference that I was hosting. I think we had had contact before then also, when I worked with Margaret Wheatley. I remember Marilyn at the leadership conference — she was one of the participants that just knew what was going on and how to gracefully add to what was there. I’ve enjoyed her ever since, even though our encounters are few.

Today I ready Marilyn’s words of grief and tenderness at the passing of her life partner and husband earlier this year. I share some of that here because her words touch me. And because Marilyn, though in a grieving process, is able to name some of the dynamic, the shrinking of horizon for a moment. And because there is grief in the world for reasons ranging from personal to global.

Here’s one line that shares some of that. With encouragement to read and follow her work. She does much to grow the thoughtful connection needed to live in city and community.

“Grief has shrunk my world from horizons imagined beyond many tomorrows to the tasks of just today, and today and today.”